LonePone
Aspiring Clopicionado
there is somthing i must confess and i fell embarass about after long time in the fandom i went from art nsfw to plushies and now i becoming interest in mlp fursuits there something i found sexy about fursuits and plushies i dont know if it is because is the closes thing you can get or is because they look cute
Thanks for responding! I can see how a sexually-related interest in plushies or furryness (furriness?) might cause one stress in the same way as interest in pornographic pony art. Similar to my response to RainbowŠpekGS, after doing my own thinking about my attraction to ponies I ultimately concluded that there wasn’t any reason for me to feel bad about enjoying it.
Taking the results of others’ potential judgements into account is necessary if one wanted to be open about it (as it relates to family, friends, job, etc.) but I could find no inherent reason that I should consider it wrong or bad to privately indulge my own fantasies involving and affecting no one but me. That de-fanged any personal shame or negativity for me. Even if I did choose to be open about it and accept the results of others’ judgements, I wouldn’t be sharing in the reasoning for those judgements. And that was an important distinction to achieve for me.
Hopefully that makes some sort of sense, anyway.
Taking the results of others’ potential judgements into account is necessary if one wanted to be open about it (as it relates to family, friends, job, etc.) but I could find no inherent reason that I should consider it wrong or bad to privately indulge my own fantasies involving and affecting no one but me. That de-fanged any personal shame or negativity for me. Even if I did choose to be open about it and accept the results of others’ judgements, I wouldn’t be sharing in the reasoning for those judgements. And that was an important distinction to achieve for me.
Hopefully that makes some sort of sense, anyway.