Starlight had been very naughty. Very very very naughty. Sending Spike dozens of extremely expensive gifts - it was amazing what kind of old relics you could gather leading a cult - had only been the start of her month long edging session for the dragon man. She would walk around in skimpy clothing around him, slip him aphrodisiac in every meal he ate, drop off her freshly used panties in his bed while he slept, and, of course, barge in on him constantly to keep him from relieving stress before she was ready.
 
All building up to him being a horny, annoyed, and pent-up dragon in full greed mode for their first date.
 
Again, naughty cult leader. Very naughty.